As We Delve Into 2012

My gosh, it’s hard to believe another year has passed. Here we are at the very beginning of 2012 perched on the edge of bright, shiny possibility. What lies in store? It’s exhilarating to be looking ahead armed with the knowledge we’ve managed to obtain from our past experiences. Wouldn’t it be great if we really were presented with a clean slate annually at the stroke of midnight? Better yet, a clean bill of health!

I’m not one for making resolutions, at least not at this time of year, because I’ve learned from past experiences that what seemed possible, even plausible, on December 31st can often feel insurmountable and unruly by mid-January! I do, however, strive each and every year to be a better person. And, in my case, that means a lot of striving!

What have you resolved to accomplish in 2012? For women recently diagnosed or currently going through treatment, this question may seem superfluous. Getting better and living a long, healthy life are at the top of the list. And rightfully so. But what about those of us who have a few years under our belts? While none of us would want to be stuck back in the time of constant tests and treatments, I’m sure all of us really hope not to lose sight of the plans we made and the dreams we had while struggling to save our lives.

Can you remember some of the things you wanted to do once you got better? On some days my goals were as simple as remembering to appreciate each and every moment possible. On others they were as lofty as wanting to save other women, helping to find a cure, or in some other way making the world a better place. Even then I realized that the simple acts could have profound effects on the more lofty.

In keeping with this concept, I decided that this year I need to start entertaining more. I always want to do it, and I enjoy it when someone else invites me over. My problem, especially since having had breast cancer, is that I don’t like making plans. Imagine that! I have found that quite often I’m all gung ho when it comes to the idea, but by the time I actually have to take action I either no longer have the initial desire, or I’m worn out from fiddling with all of the details in my head. I am determined to stop this nonsense and actually enjoy having company.

I have many women friends who have never met each other. Each is remarkable in her own way, and I know most of them would welcome an opportunity to meet other women with something in common. Me!

Since I’ve just moved into a trailer court, I figured a festive approach to introducing my friends to each other and my new abode would be to have a gathering called: We’re Gonna’ Party Like It’s $19.99!

I’m nothing if not clever when it comes to concepts. I am determined this time to see my cleverness through to fruition. My challenge is going to be feeding people things like macaroni and cheese, beanie weenies, tater tots and Spam in some healthy way. Since I’m pretty sure this is impossible, I’m going to do the next best thing. I’m going to create gourmet versions of each of these artery clogging favorites so at least we will all die happy.

I’m going to serve wine in small mason jars (to do otherwise would be in poor taste, don’t you think?) I’m going to give party favors that include pink flamingos and festive fly swatters. In keeping with the theme, I may go all out and hang laundry to dry on the backs of chairs. I’m telling you, there is no end to the possibilities.

What I’m not going to do is stress about ANY of it. I am going to jump into 2012 with the strong belief that life is a banquet and when you are sharing time with friends, beanie weenies and cheese out of a can is every bit as enjoyable as the most expensive meal you’ve ever had.